[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

Many thanks to the person/persons who sent this to our e-mail address. Pity you hide your address....

Not too sure what is being suggested... If it was anyone on this site, please PM us.... for discussion.....

It did have highlighted text, which has been stripped to enable it to be inserted here...

Thanks

Jerry (& Chris)



This article was sent to our e-mail address from an anon source....!!!! Is that how others see our swinging !!!

:soapbox:

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

This article was sent to our e-mail address from an anon source....!!!! Is that how others see our swinging !!!

The term has acquired additional meanings within certain sub-cultures, referring to couples wherein the female is dominant and she takes on additional partners, while the male takes on a submissive role where he is monogamous to her, or only becoming involved sexually when it is felt to be emotionally supportive of her and her lover, or remaining altogether chaste. A man who fetishizes this situation is often referred to in the sub-culture as a "cuck".
Cuckoldry as a fetish has been around since at least the time of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (the writer after whom the term "masochism" is coined). Sacher-Masoch's wife, Aurora Rümelin, recounts in her memoirs multiple instances of Sacher-Masoch asking, begging and even threatening her to make her cuckold him so he could experience the pain and humiliation of the act. To that end, Sacher-Masoch created multiple opportunities for the adulterous act to occur, none of which were successful. While Rümelin indulged her husband in many of his masochistic requests, due in large part because to her dependence on him to financially support her and her children, she steadfastly refused to cuckold him. Rümelin's refusal to succumb to Sacher-Masoch's cuckolding fantasies was one of the causes of their separation and her subsequent descent into poverty.

The wife who enjoys cuckoldry is sometimes referred to as a hotwife. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and the additional male participant (sometimes called a "stud" or "bull") is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behaviour and the variability commonly seen in male libidos; the cuckold or beta male suggesting a lack of virility, perhaps sometimes having a small penis, impotence, infertility, vulnerability, weakness, or even anxiety and the stud or alpha male representing virility, potency, a larger phallus, fertility, dynamism, masculinity, strength and a sense of confidence in the ease with which he may sexually possess another man's wife. There are some who consider the use of the term "bull" to be offensive, and this term is also not used commonly in the BDSM community.

Cuckolding among female-dominant couples differs from the original definition of cuckolding in that many of these men are voluntarily cuckolded by their wives, sometimes as part of the husband's sexual fantasy and sometimes because they gain genuine sexual arousal through being humiliated by his wife being better sexually fulfilled with a potentially superior male. In some cases the husband may instigate and nurture his wife's sexual infidelity, raising the question of who is truly the dominant partner. This is a common theme in letters to erotica magazines and online sites which focus on cuckoldry.

In most modern cases of fantasy cuckolding, the husband usually finds pleasure through that of his wife and they (the wife and extra-marital participant) may both enjoy attempting to actively include him in the act of cuckolding as much as possible through serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant, and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment, usually while masturbating or involving himself in some sexual act (Photo/Video) in your case with his wife during their activity.

Some less-common themes might include grooming his wife for her "date", homemaking, or oral sex following the conclusion of sex with the other man. When this oral sex follows ejaculation, it is termed a creampie or cleaning up. This involves the husband eating or licking the semen of another man from inside his unfaithful wife.


Cuckolding and homosexuality
In some cases, cuckolding is a means for the husband to express same-sex desires through his wife and/or directly with the additional participant.

In various alternative-lifestyle support groups and online forums, homosexuality is often a primary concern for both couples thinking about participating in cuckolding, with the heterosexual husband being cautious about the possibility of a homosexual encounter.


Popularity of cuckolding
When cuckolding is a humiliation fantasy, it works best when the individual with the fantasy believes cuckolding is hopelessly the only choice for their relationship. This may be one of the reasons cuckold fantasy stories sometimes contain the theme that females are genetically predisposed to desire the "alpha-male", prefer men with larger genitalia or that their wives are driven with wild lust.


Cuckolding as a dominant voyeuristic act
While word origin and most historic accounts define the cuckold husband as being submissive, powerless and/or in need of humiliation to receive stimulation, contemporary practice suggests the possibility of something altogether different. Rather than passively acceeding to the infidelity and desires of an errant wife, this cuckold is more in keeping with the male partners defined in polyamorous, open, or swinging relationships.

In this manifestation, the cuckold is a consummate voyeur... who derives great pleasure from seeing his "hot wife" or partner being pleasured and serviced by another male (or males...or a female). Although he assumes a submissive role and will often assist during the course of the sex act, the "cuckhold husband" may actually be the controlling, dominant party in the relationship. He may invite, encourage, and initiate consideration of the practice with his partner, and may be the one to make arrangements and approve how, when and with whom his wife may have the intended encounter. In street parlance, he may "pimp" his wife for the encounters he wishes.

Often, the excitement of the encounter with third parties is followed by more sex play between the relationship partners. The encounter becomes an aphrodisiac, helping to initiate and enhance further sex play between them, as visions of the encounter are revisited and replayed during subsequent love making sessions.

[Frankie Two Fingers]

Hello Baroness and El Presidente,
Someone just seems to have loads of time on their hands. Don't let the riff-raff bother you. :)

Frankie

[Mel69 and Double Maxim]

There is much that could be saif about this article but I would imagine that it is from an article on the history of sex and sexual fantasies of bygone era. The term originates from the time of the Roman Empire when soldiers were away for years and their wife had a baby by another man. I appears in the English language as far back as the 13th century used by the Catholic Church. It was intended to describe a man who was unaware of his wife's adultery, he was considered a victim of her actions. I would also imagine that the person who sent it to you guys merely cut and pasted it into the e-mail... I would doubt very much that it was actually written by them.

The actual tern cuckhold is a derivative of the Old French word cucault - literally from the word cucu or as we know it cuckoo and named so for the bird that lays its eggs in another bird's nest.

I thought it mostly a load of drivel actually. My man is most certainly not lacking in any way whatsoever in the sexual, mental,physical or emotional department. Neither am I for that matter. I don't know about you guys but neither of us find it humiliating to 'swing' and it was a concious decision between two people who love and respect each other very much and neither of us are unknowing victims of illicit sexual fantasy or act of adultery.

Well, that's my view of the mail sent to you anyway :)
Narrow minded git!

M&G
x

[Mel69 and Double Maxim]

LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just had a look on Wikipedia and there is the exact a-mail that was sent to you, heh-heh! It was merely cpied over.
Agh! Take no notice of the plagurising twit.

M&G
xx

[absinthe_boy]

I was going to say that has the ring of the wikipedia about it.

If someone has something to say, they should have the guts to put their head in the firing line...so to speak.

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

Abs,

Yes, I think your right... have checked and it's almost word for word.....

Don't really mind what they put, if only they would put their name to it.

Having said that, it may not be a Scorpio person, as it was set direct to our external e-mail address.

[Mel69 and Double Maxim]

Heh-heh! Maybe your neighbour has turned into a stalker.

M&G
x

[Taurus]

Chris and Jerry,

Lee says that you should be able to find out the sender of this mail by looking in the headers section of the mail. If you don't know how to do this let me know and I'll ask him :D

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

T,
Thanks... yes, by the time I thought about looking at the headers I had copied the text and deleted... I don't usually open messages without a clear sender and our scanner usually sends it as junk anyway...

Not to worry, no sleep lost .....

J

[Steve4000]

Chris n Jerry
Sending such a message says more about the senders’ inadequacies, insecurities and lack of personality in contrast to the lovely, warm, friendly, approachable couple you are. Anonymous mails are not worth the person who sends them.
Steve