[Chips]

Hi everybody, :D Just a quick note to introduce myself. Have just registered and am looking forward to meeting you at future gatherings. It's just a question of plucking up the nerve to attend my first, to lose my virginity ( so to speak) :o Any advise? Does a stiff one help? A drink that is!!! Everything else is in perfect working order!!! ::

[absinthe_boy]

Well various stiff items usually help the parties get going ;)

The thing is to drink some alcohol, enough to loose some of the nerves and inhibitions and get you talkative, but not so much that your unable to perform or you get silly.

Yes, it does help, the wife and I usually have a little vodka on the train on our way down to the parties and then another 1 or 2 once there gets us nicely in the mood.

The parties really are incredibly friendly, and there is nothing to worry about. You will be welcomed as soon as you enter, and introduced to a few people. Really from then on the best advise is to treat it as a normal party...but you can have sex if you want.

HTH

[Hotshaft1]

I am new too and hope to come to a party soon.

[Hotshaft1]

Is there a reason my picture did not show up?

[Taurus]

It might be if the picture you tried to upload was too big? You might need to reduce the size.

Taurus xx

[Hotshaft1]

Thanks Taurus, I'll give it another go

[Hotshaft1]

Have tried several times with a reduced picture but still failed (even when reduced to less than 20kb! Here is the picture in question (I hope). Will this go down well at one of the parties?

[Taurus]

Hmm, don't know what the problem is. The attachment you sent shows as file not being found when I click on it. Try sending your photo to Webbo and ask him to put it up for you. Sorry I can't help :(

T x

[demi]

Taurus I have tried to attach a picture too to my post and it isn't sticking! I tried 2 differnet pics and the same thing happened!

[lizzy]

Hi - I'm new also
Have you tried it yet?
My hubbie & I would like to join in (well he wants me to really) & I'd like to know what to expect
lizzy

[Taurus]

Hi Lizzie,

Well, as I'm the one that runs them I can tell you that we're a nice relaxed bunch of people, very friendly and not at all intimidating. Having said that, I'm a bit worried with what you say in your message. I only ever want people to join us if they're fully interested in coming along for themselves - I would hate you to come just because your other half thinks it's a good idea, if you know what I mean! Where couples are concerned, I need both of you to be happy with the idea. Do get in touch by e-mail if you wish to discuss more.

Taurus xx

[paul0503]

I was a virgin party goer but when i got ther everyone made me feel comfortable and welcome. I am glad I went as I had a lot of fun and met some very nice people.
Paul0503

[Ms Mischief]

Hiya Lizzie

I come to the parties as a single girl and unlike other parties I have been to I can honestly say it's safe,fun and a great night out with good sex thrown into the package and it a hell of a lot nicer than going out down my local.

I have been to others and these are now the only ones I bother with because its such a great mix of people and everyone is so friendly

LT

[shelley]

Hi Lizzie, I have to agree with Lady T, the parties are great, sex or no sex .. and there's always plenty of that to go round, hehehe! Haven't tried any others yet, but that could be coz I don't need to.... :)

[georgef]

I'd love to attend - but I'm a virgin as well, how do these things get going...bit of chat then off with the clothes?

[Lee]

Nah - forget the chat ;)