[jameslondon]

as a newbie, concerned about performance issues in group settings. has anyone had (or willing to admit to) performance problems. any suggestions, solutions?

[Sangria_girl]

I can say from a woman's point of view, it does happen. I don't have any tips unfortunately. But I can say that if you have 'technical difficulties' Fingers and toungues do make adequate substitutions. If and until the issue is resolved.

[Lee]

Best bet is to just relax and enjoy yourself, and if it does happen, don't think 'It is just me - I failed' - just revert to having other fun, as Sangria_girl said - I will guarantee you would not be the first or the last - but if you 'dive in' with a positive mind, I am sure you will be fine.... :)

[Here is David]

Personally, I am waiting for prostate cancer to take hold. If you have it removed your cock wilts to bugger all ... but they offer you a pump to make the old man any size you want. Apparently it takes a long time for it to go down which could be a godsend for the female who complain of the effects of the brewer's yeast after a night on the beer ... or the flagging erection after the one male orgasm. Just think, you could put the old man in, then inflate it to fit!!

[absinthe_boy]

I'll admit to having taken several parties to get used to performing in front of other men - it was probably a year of attending every Friday party before I started really feeling confident.

As my good lady wife says, there are fingers and tongues with which to please a lady if the cock is a little shy...and you never know, the results of a good licking/fingering might fire up your cock's enthusiasm too ;)

If it does happen remember as Webbo says, you aren't the first nor will you be the last. And sex isn't just playing 'poker'...it is limited only by your imagination and most of us party-goers are quite imaginitive ;)

[Ms Mischief]

Well personally speaking I really don't think myself or any lady who attends a party will take it as a personal insult. It does happen the scenario of nerves, alcohol and condoms could strike fear into anyone my first party I was terrified. However the thing is no one will ever make you feel bad about it the best thing to do is take your time and talk to people first and nature usually takes care of itself.

I like the fingers and tongues as a back up too...

Catch you soon

LT

[JEMIMA PUDDLE-DUCK]

I think the key is to be comfortable in the surrounding and not have to much to drink. Go to the parties with an open mind and relax. Easier said than don't don't worry about the rising concernt too much.

[Altebony]

the whole setting gives me a thrill, and a boner to bear witness. Bring on Group sex...
have a great morning

[mellow_one]

Its not the standing to attention that would worry me, but with all those lovely girls, it would be lasting the course!!

[Diosma]

I'll admit to only having attended the one party, and so it is, perhaps, unfortunate that the first person I had the good fortune to play with suffered from the aforementioned "performance issues".

Did I feel insulted? Far from it! I echo Sangria_Lady & Lady_T - there are lips and fingers, and I had a really good time. I'd like to think that the chap I was with also had a good time - well, he didn't slink off embarassed, but stayed around and played some more!

[johnww]

If, like me, you are an out and out exhibitionist then the chance to put on a performance is a great part of the thrill.
I am going to my first party on the 9th of July, so lets hope everything is in working order.

[brighton]

Having the same worries - first party is next Saturday. But
wild horses wouldnt keep me away! Hoping for some busty ladies to get things moving ... if you see what I mean.

[Ms Mischief]

Hi Peter

See ya there

LT

[HistoricSlunk]

I had some issues at the first party I went too, I think it was performing in public that did it - however I did still have fund and it did all work in the end :D

I must say though my first Scorpio party is to come, I am looking forward to it in a nervouse way.

[icandybabe]

Only 30% woman actually orgasm through penetrative sex alone ... so what do the other 70% do?! Wanna know more?

It's a popular misconception amongst men - that the appendage that dangles between their legs satisfies women completely. Why are they so fixated on length and girth?! Never mind performing in public!

Next time u guys 'fail to rise to the occasion' - why don't u try using an alternative approach and concentrate on the space between your ears, the most potent sexual muscle of all - your imagination!

Experiment with: tongues varying pressure and speed; fingers and fists; tweak those nipples; rub ice-cubes over your partner's body or drip candle-wax fleetingly over hot flesh; lick, suck and nibble; experiment with different textures (a trip round B&Q is far cheaper than Ann Summers or Prowler); share a hot shower; run a relaxing bath followed by an erotic massage ... take your time, feast your eyes and senses - before moving onto the main course! Bon Appetit!

[Ellie]

My lover was recently devouring succulent strawberries and cream from my decolletage, very cold thick cream on the nips is sublimly sexy

[PaulofLuton]

If anyone would like to learn the art of sensual massage I am a professional male masseur and more than happy to bring pleasure into the world of others. With the right gentle and tender touch..you can make your partner reach the heights of pleasure time and time again. ;)

[Feaster69]

This is an issue I delt with my self the first time in front of a camera. She was getting paid but not getting laid. I felt horrable after wards. I have done a few shoots since and no more limpy. Nerves can really mess things up sometimes.

Limpy happens to all men at one time or another. I prefer to lick it any way.

[Ms Mischief]

Tongues are good.......

MM

[absinthe_boy]

So I've been told :p