[Taurus]

Please always check if a person is a ScorpioNet Member (or ScorpioNet Guest Member). This appears under the user name on the left-hand side. If it doesn't say this, the person advertising to meet up is not known to us at ScorpioNet and is a casual user of the Forum. If you have any doubts, ask me and I'll let you know.

Always make sure you have spoken to any female(s) involved. Don't accept any excuses. Genuine couples will not have a problem with this and will be reassured that you are being careful.

Always meet in a public place.

Wherever you arrange to meet, don't be tempted to then move somewhere else not previously discussed for any reason. Either they meet at the agreed location and time, or not at all.

Tell a friend where you are going. Make sure you have your phone with you.

When you do meet up, if you have any doubts then say so and walk away, or politely ask them to leave.

While disappointed, genuine swingers will accept your rejection gracefully and leave.

Remember, Genuine swingers will understand your caution, will not be pushy, and not make excuses. Only people with some other hidden agenda will do this.

Play safe!

[absinthe_boy]

Great advice, I'd just add it might be an idea to have a brief phone call with them...that way you know they are the gender they claim to be and if they only suggest calling at strange hours (or not calling at all) it's another strange sign that something isn't what it seems.

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

Keep the negatives... must update you into 21st cent.
It's digital now.... much easier to share !!!

[JEMIMA PUDDLE-DUCK]

Just because everything is digital doesn't mean that there aren't strange guys out there or women for that matter. Just because they look normal ie have 2 eyes a nose and a month doesn't mean they are. All the advise given is good advise!!!!!

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

I don't disagree with you at all...... Exactly why we only meet people we can trust.....

The comment was on keeping the negatives... We haven't used wet film for over 2 years.. and the pics and be deleted at the time.....

[absinthe_boy]

Always keep the negs is just my current signature...since I had used "surf's Up" for about a year I thought it was time to change. And there ain't no one gonna take my Kodachrome away!

Digicams may give instant results, but there's more to life than instant gratification...

[Ms Mischief]

Good advice Boss Babe

Safety is very important especially for us single girls

LT

[rocker314]

Just to be safe, only meet people who you think is nice. haha