[colroy]

:wavey:hello! hope you are all well.not too tired from your past parties to reply ? :D.foreplay does this exist in the party situation?i personally like it,however is it a frenzied approach,being rushed by the next hopeful behind you.? :o. wham bam thankyou next please.let me know your thoughts.see you on the 29th.bye ;)

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

Wham Bam, Thank You, Next......
Bloody hell, you wont see much action if you try that. I think most of the Ladies will shun you.....
The party is 5 hours long, not 5 minutes....

[Sangria_girl]

Its what you make of it. If you try chatting to me in the lounge, tell me I'm beautiful, flirt, you are going to get a better response in the bedroom. and there might not be that embarrasing, and your name is? stage when you are putting your trousers on.
We are REAL women, yes we(sorry if I'm not speaking for you girls) enjoy sex marathons, but foreplay is needed to get everyone going.

[JEMIMA PUDDLE-DUCK]

most parties usually start in the living room or the kitchen where we all chat to one another about things kissing cuddleing and some touching does happen its not a case of just going for a fuck its a pleasent evening to all and i think that foreplay plays a bit part in the night.

[absinthe_boy]

As a guy who likes kissing, cuddling in the living room and foreplay in the bedroom I am happy to report that there's plenty of those at Scorpionet parties.

While there are frenzied orgies once things get going, somebody has to make the moves that get things started in the first place. And besides, there's more to sex than 'wham, bang, thankyou'. Speaking purely personally I find it more satisfying if there's been some chase beforehand.

[justinplaywithme]

im strongly thinking about coming to a party, and i love foreplay. chatting, kissing, cuddling all add to the enjoyment that i get and hopefully give as well..

and thats before i get anywhere near the genitals! i like to build it up and really show the lady a good time.. most of the time im quite content to perform oral and finger, giving the lady all the pleasure.

it makes me happy knowing that i pleased the lovely lady
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[colroy]

thanks for the reply,i like to tease and please so that both come away with big smile on there faces!!first party 29th.using the forum to ask questions;plenty viewing the post,hope to see you there. :D

[absinthe_boy]

I'm another guy who prefers to please his lady (or ladies!)...so I like to give lots of oral and fingering. Even before that...lots of cuddling and kissing and *talking* is a great way to gently move things towards the bedroom.

[biguy]

Add me to the list of those who enjoy lots of cuddling and kissing. I'd heard sex was possible without such activities but never believed it. I'm pleased to learn that this group doesn't believe it either.

[JEMIMA PUDDLE-DUCK]

oh it is possible not very enjoyable though its passionless and does the job so far as you get fucked but thats about it

[absinthe_boy]

I am always aware at a party that I am not only there to satisfy my own lust...but to put a smile on a lady's face (or the faces of a few ladies if I am very lucky). I always hope to satisfy my partner and give pleasure.

[biguy]

I agree, absinthe boy. I get a lot of pleasure from making sure my partner (partners, if I'm lucky) is pleased and satisfied.

[colroy]

:clap:i am so pleased with your thoughts, in general that foreplay plays a big part,to acheive the best experiance for you and your partner/partners ! :wow: thanks again to all who have replied.

[Ms Mischief]

U ladies like a bit of a warm up first anyone who tries to jump me without an introduction usually gets blown out the water - That the bonus with Scorpionet its as much about the socialising as about the bedrooms....

LT

[Bunny]

I attended my first party this weekend and was a little worried about how long you should spend with one partner at a time.

I too like to please my partners (several times) with plenty of foreplay and teasing before penetration to really prolong the whole experience but I was a little concerned that all this takes time and they might think 'hay just get on with it!'

I think two way communication is the key though. If in doubt, ask and if things are progressing too quickly, say so. I also think this goes for a lot of things.

I can't speak for all gents but I'd rather a lady say 'sorry that doesn't work for me, try this...' than just 'fake it' and not really enjoy herself!

Hope this helps!

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

I dont think there is a time limit at all..... I'm sure it's not the case it 'must get at least 10 men in tonite'. If it takkes 5 mins, great, but the parties last 5 hours, and for most people (men or women) that's more than enough time....

I'm not sure that we played, but I can assure you that I don't fake it.... !!

[Bunny]

Thanks Chris, No we didn't play but would liked to have! I'm very new to all this so I was a little concerned about taking up too much of a lady's time.

I have proved myself time and time again in a 'one-on-one' situation so I can only get better at this!

Thanks again

Ady xx

[Sangria_girl]

I was on the receiving end of Ady's attentions, I can say it was a very enjoyable experience.

[Baroness Crazypaws and President McTwitch]

Ooo, So you were hogging him then ?????

[Ellie]

Friday foreplay.....mmmmmmm delectable thought