[johncarpenter]

Hi everyone,

Firstly, as a newcomer to the site, and hopefully in future the club, I was very impressed by the level of friendship and community that I find here. It's a very welcome environment and I must compliment Taurus, Lee, and all the members for that. I hope you don't mind if I ask a few questions to those who attend the parties regularly

Is there an opportunity for one on one's, the pictures ahow a lot of group sessions, which I would obviously like to enjoy in the future. But on the first few nights I'd be more inclined to talk to someone, get to know a little about them and take it from there. Essentially, can you get a bit of space early on from the more frenetic :) activity if you're a little apprehensive starting off.

Do many of you females that particpate kiss? I love to french kiss. For a newcomer on a first night what is the etiquette, if you are talking to someone and liking them, and attracted to them, how would you tell them you'd like to go further and pleasure them.

These probably sound like very basic or obvious questions, but it would be nice to get a feel of things, maybe someone could elucidate on their first experiences.

Thanks everyone on the forum for listening,

John ::

[CurvyVenus]

Hi John - I'm a relative newbie myself so hope I can answer some of your questions from a female point of view. I've attended two parties as a single female and on both occasions have been made very welcome. It's a very relaxed open atmosphere and it is entirely up to you how fast or slow you go - it's kind of a cocktail party atmosphere, if you like the look of someone, start chatting to them, get to know them a little and then if you'd like to take things further, just ask! There's no pressure to have group sex and if you prefer a one on one that's fine - it's solely down to you and your partner. At both the parties I've been to there's been a smaller single bedroom which I guess is a bit more intimate than the larger rooms if you're feeling a bit nervous. And as for the kissing, well personally I regard kissing as an essential part of good sex but like anything else at the parties, it's always appreciated if you ask the lady first if you can kiss her!

Hope this helps and hope to see you at a future party - just come and say hi!

Annie x

[johncarpenter]

Thanks for the kind reply Venus, very much appreciated

[Ms Mischief]

Kissing is an essential thing in my book....

LT

[absinthe_boy]

I find kissing is virtually essential if I am to rise to the occasion...nothing else quite like lying on a bed or snuggling on a couch kissing with a nice lady.

[Diosma]

More kissing!! More! More!

[mudcrazy]

Kissing definately. Long ,Slow,Sitting down or standing up.

:D :D :D

[Ms Mischief]

Well it's nearly the mistletoe time of year

Not that I ever need an excuse

Just need to find a costume for the Xmas party....

LT

[biguy]

One of the great joys I discovered at my first party was how much kissing was encouraged and enjoyed. It certainly helps a newcomer overcome nerves and makes the parties warm and personal. And all this is on top of the fact that sex without kissing is rather like gulping one's whiskey instead of tasting it.

[Ms Mischief]

Thats very true

LT